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Every day counts

 Every day is an opportunity Do you feel that you have come to your end of searching for better things or oppertunities? Maybe you have been looking in all places but without any progress. Its difficult not to get what you are actually looking for. Its also sad to stop looking for what you want. How bad do you want to develop or make things better for yourself? It can be that you feel that you are too old now to dream still.  It doesn’t matter what you think or how you feel but with breathe still in you , you have an opportunity to try again. It is not always easy to dust yourself off after you fell, but that is the only way you will be able to move forward. Do not be so comfortable in what you have now ,whilst you are entitle to so much more. Stop watching other people's successes and feel you will never get there.  Each person's journey is different. They also had their difficulties but because of perserverance and commitment they have pushed through. People who look as...

Create your destiny

Have you ever wonder why certain things dont turn out the way you wished?.  The reason is that you did nothing to fulfill it. Could it be that you just have wishful thinking?. That you wish to be someone , have something, become someone one day but you do nothing about it?. Life is what you make out of it. What you create is what you will get. If you want to have a   house full of joy, laughter, happiness you should create the atmosphere. If you want to have an enjoyable work environment, you should create one.  Nothing will just be the way you wish it to be. What is the areas that you wish to see some changes in?. Here are ways to create what you want: 1.  Begin your day with positive self  affirmations. Speak good words over yourself such as " I am loved", I have joy, I will win today". This way you are setting the pace for the whole day. 2.  Start your day with prayer and bring all your plans and desires before the Lord God of the whole universe....

How to believe in yourself again

It is difficult when you want to do something and you do not believe in it. How do you think someone else will take you seriously when you have doubts? There are things in life we as women face that makes us doubt in ourselves. We get in relationships with men that does not appreciate us and we believe it is our fault when things dont work out. The funny part is that we always repeat the same cycle of getting into relationships and looking for acceptance from the other person. It is such experiences that let us become women with low self-esteem. We always look for someone to give us validation. Sometimes we are so busy focusing on the other person that we forget to start searching for the root cause of the problem. Who are you before you expose yourself to someone else? Do you need to feel appreciated based on someone else's opinion about yourself?. Here is how to start to believe in yourself again: 1. Start looking into your own heart. How is your heart doing right now? Identify e...