Dear Diary This is a picture of myself that I took in 2014 or 2015. I just know it was in the season of me being single at the time. This was the time I had already told myself that I will never get married one day. In fact, that was the decision I have made and sticked to it. I never knew that what I decided did not occur as I have planned because in 2018, I got married to the most wonderful, caring, loving husband. God really had His plan laid out long before time. If I never had faith before, my faith grew so strong of seeing God working things the moment my focus shifted from what I want and how I plan things but instead make God the first most important priority in my life. This picture reflects such joy in my eyes. But that season it was not a joyous time at all. So much pain and hurt are hidden behind this smile. So much bad choices that I have made during this time in my life, and I am thankful it did happen because really prepared me and trained me for the per...
Chrisandy Ruiters holds the rank of Major in the South African National Defence Force. She is the eldest of three sisters, a devoted wife to Mario Ruiters, and a proud mother of two. Passionate about personal development, she is faith-driven and family-oriented. Her approach to life centres on continual growth—both personally and professionally—so she can fully live out her purpose. Guided by a strong corporate mission, Chrisandy empowers young women, mothers, daughters, and teenagers to choose