Our identities is probably one of the biggest things holding us back. I thought I knew who I were until I lived a little longer. I am no longer willing to be silent to make people comfortable. I am no longer willing to act like I don't know who I am so other people don't feel intimidated. I am no longer willing to be the quiet one in the room so that I don't get picked out in any way Everything I learn about myself I had to start write it in pencil because it is subject to change As you grow your identity has to evolve to hold everything that you are. If you written certain things in permanent marker you will never become more. I used to say I'm an introvert and it wasn't that I am an introvert. I learned how to edit myself because when I spoke people listen. What if you aren't really the quiet one, you just do that so other people don't feel uncomfortable. What if you walking into a new experience of yourself means...
Chrisandy Ruiters holds the rank of Major in the South African National Defence Force. She is the eldest of three sisters, a devoted wife to Mario Ruiters, and a proud mother of two. Passionate about personal development, she is faith-driven and family-oriented. Her approach to life centres on continual growth—both personally and professionally—so she can fully live out her purpose. Guided by a strong corporate mission, Chrisandy empowers young women, mothers, daughters, and teenagers to choose