Don't be surprise if everyone won't clap for you. It's just part of the journey. Some will create the illusion that they are but actually it is just to quiet their own feelings of fear that arises everytime they see you becoming better or doing better. It is a fear that is 'what if she/he will do better than them' . It can also be showing the world that I'm celebrating him or her eventhough they never personally said 'Well done!'or' You know I'm proud of you! '. Beware if their actions in front of the whole world does not match their actions in secret. Let this however not demotivate you to continue what you do best at your own pace and in your own lane. You have only one goal and that is not to outshine anyone else but only the person you were one year ago. If you still wondering if you must open your business, do it, if you should write that book, do it! If you should apply for that job, do it! If you should develop yourself on a personal ...
Chrisandy Ruiters holds the rank of Major in the South African National Defence Force. She is the eldest of three sisters, a devoted wife to Mario Ruiters, and a proud mother of two. Passionate about personal development, she is faith-driven and family-oriented. Her approach to life centres on continual growth—both personally and professionally—so she can fully live out her purpose. Guided by a strong corporate mission, Chrisandy empowers young women, mothers, daughters, and teenagers to choose