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Recognize an open door quickly!

Those new to this blog, I am a woman that loves personal development. I commit easily to programs, events that will be beneficial for my personal life, family and career. One of such an event was the 1 Life insurance life changing lessons in collaboration with Wisdom and Wellness in Capetown on the 21 March 2025.   The founder of Wisdom and Wellness is a woman that I greatly admire since 2018. I have been following her brand and I really can draw so much from her and her husband's wisdom to life matters.  To be able to be in the room during their very first live podcast was a such a honor and privilege. To share  photos with them shoulder to shoulder was a moment of awe. I visualise this moment since forever from my couch whenever watching a podcast on their YouTube channel.  To be able to attend this life changing moments with my husband was so surreal. I believe he thought it will be a 'girly' event but when the guest was Mpoomy's husband th...

The God who answer!!

I wrote a letter to God on 11 July 2024 where I said that I trust Him with what He is doing.  I was still waiting on a open door for my transfer. During that period I was on course. Now I cannot contain my thankfulness towards God because even if it took time, he made it happen according to His purpose. I am in awe of His faithfulness.  So whilst I was still on course in Capetown my transfer signal came through. This was my authority to move from Pretoria to Cape Town. How awesome is God. End August 2024 our family's breakthrough came!!! In the same year end of September 2024 my husband got a new oppertunity also in Cape Town. The faithful God we serve. How can we not serve Him? This year I'm going all into receiving what He has already made available by grace to us!! I pray that we will use our gifts to serve others needs in a community that God will direct us too. Thank you heavenly Father.  Amen.  Your daughter Chrisandy

Trust

I sit here in Cape Town listening to the wind that is  blowing so heavily outside. The weather is not good at all. Schools have been closed for two days and will only commence on Monday. I am suppose to prepare for my test of tomorrow but I feel I already covered the most. So I decided to write something. I miss my family so much. This is the 2nd week away from home.I am on course for two months.It is part of my career to do these courses. So I have to complete it and than I can return home in early September 2024.  I have ample time to sleep alot when not in class or writing a test. Time to read, to write, eat and sleep. Through all this I learned to trust my Father for the season also this side. May I see God in all of this and know He is taking care of my family. I trust in God for the transfer I am also waiting on. He knows what is best for us so we trust and believe. This is a time in our lives we will forever remember of how God remained faithful even when I sometimes do...

It is not meant for everyone

Don't be surprise if everyone won't clap for you. It's just part of the journey. Some will create the illusion that they are but actually it is just to quiet their own feelings of fear that arises everytime they see you becoming better or doing better. It is a fear that is 'what if she/he will do better than them' . It can also be showing the world that I'm celebrating him or her eventhough they never personally said 'Well done!'or' You know I'm proud of you! '. Beware if their actions in front of the whole world does not match their actions in secret.  Let this however not demotivate you to continue what you do best at your own pace and in your own lane. You have only one goal and that is not to outshine anyone else but only the person you were one year ago. If you still wondering if you must open your business, do it, if you should write that book, do it! If you should apply for that job, do it! If you should develop yourself on a personal ...

Test vs Elevation

You will always be tested before your next promotion /elevation. E. G in the military there are courses that you need to do and be found competent in order to move  closer to your next rank or position.If you do not take the course you move down the seniority list for courses. Sometimes we are setting ourselves up for failing the tests. Let us not be our own stumbling block.  Do not stand back to take each test you get along your way. The journey of life is constantly bringing you tests and it will take all your courage to face the test, pass it and move to the next level or repeat the test over and over because you are not yet found compotent. Do not postponed taking the test because you will block your own pathway to elevation. Prepare for the test, Take the test, Pass the test and Move to your next level.

Change is Coming!

Each individual has a story to share. We all will have to experience a  beginning,middle, turning point and ending during our journey called life. Each chapter of our life gives us a lesson if we are seeing it earlier than later in life. Sometimes it takes years for us to see the bigger picture but d have so much gratitude at the end of a certain chapter in our life stories. We don't always see the end or even think there will come an end to a chapter. Whether good or bad, it is for a reason. So let's think about the change we want to see in our life episodes. What can we do to accomplish those changes? Sometimes we are our own stumble blocks and we prevent ourselves from reaching our full capacity in life. I want to be the change to also infuse change into someone else's life. We want good change and not change that will be harmful to us. I choose change to impact others life's. So let's embrace changes we need to to do on our own lives first before moving on to th...