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Are you tired of trying again??Refocus!

Have you ever fine you so busy being busy with stuff not related to yoi lately? Have you consume all your energy on things not important or beneficial to you? Well lately I have . Two months went to waste like totaly. I were focused on unimporyant stuff! No one to blame but myself. We can become so caught up in following other people's lives on social media. Watching their every move, so busy being busy with their lives. Instead of startinh to build on yours. Two months ago i wrote on my blog. Im so dissapointed yes but yoi know what it doesnt matter. Every moment happening in your life has a message and a booster. It motivated me more when realising that time waits for no one. It is either you get back into or just continue watching how life pass me by day by day and becoming all negative and depressed. That however is not going to happen on my watch as long as I still have breath in my lungs. Who will join me?? Yes I know I was not consistent, nor writinh enough, not produc...

How to persevere through tough times

Life has taught me so many things in a short period of time of my precious years here on earth. One can grow through situations that was meant to destroy you. It does not mean that I have everything under control now but I sure have a better idea how to react to situations now. Previously decisions were made based on what others thought. Looking back now there are footprints of seeking approval from others. Not feeling worthy of myself. Always trying to fit in somewhere.  How naive can one be?? The money and time spent on senseless things. How time really passed by partying it away. Lived in the now moments and not planning and thinking of the future. The many dreams that were dreamt during childhood times were hidden far away. The feeling of achievement because now there is more than enough money to buy all the things you could never buy. Simply because there was just enough for what was needed and not wanted. You always thought that if you finish school you will get a pe...

The meaning of life

When we look around us today we can see troubles from everywhere. We become so saddened about the things that are happening in our societies, communities, nation and the world as a whole. When did people become so ruthless, loveless, uncompassionate , no feelings of regret? It is especially sad when we hear women and children are abused or went missing. It's like there is no more love among people. We become so fearful of the animosity among our people and the constant fighting against each other. It brings me to the question:" What is the meaning of all this?" Is it Ok that things are like it is? Must we accept it like this? We are so focused on the ones that got hurt that we forget about the one who did it. It leads me to the wonder of why?? What went wrong in that person's life to go to such an extreme to feel no regret of what he/ she did to someone else. It is heartbreaking because that person is also someone's child. He /she is so damaged if the...

How to take another chance in life!!

Have you woke up one day and realise that you got another chance at life? Its fascinating to think of the privilege to see another day. Just the other day you were at your lowest of low. You thought you will never make it. You gave up in fact. But here you are given another chance. Yes, you made bad choices. You got involved in wrong relationships. Seeked attention in all the wrong places which landed you in situations you are not proud of.  Searched for approval of friends by joining the crowd. You wanted to be part of the clan because life is so easy when you are one of them. You are important and everyone knows you and this kind of life make you feel important some how.   You always felt like the nerd, the one who is boring, never going out, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink alcohol or dont do clubs. So the moment when you became one of the 'good time' girl or boy , having a blast ,it all changed. You suddenly had a lot of friends. You made friends so...

What do you have to offer?

How often do we look at celebrities success stories. Reading it,following it on tweeter,facebook.  We start to fantasise about our own life. How we will be when we can become famous,well-known, popular, rich or even just making it in life. It's easy to follow other people's lives and clapping for them ,celebrating them whilst we still procrastinate on our own life. Yes,obcoz we should celebrate others.  Don't get me wrong. It is through such role models we can aspire to  become what we also should be. Many people have started small . They started with only one dream. One desire. One goal. With only what they had to offer. It brings us to the question. What do you and I have to offer to this world?. There are so many things we can do. Reaching out to teenagers, to abused women, to poor households, to underprivileged schools ,to a community with lack of entertainment activities. Still all the above are not the limit. What do you have?. What is it that y...

The uncertainty of tomorrow

The question why am I here pop in my head when I think about tomorrow. The reason I'm thinking this  is so that I can do what I'm suppose to do. When we listen to the news we just here bad news. People killing ,stealing, destroying and dying. It give the picture of things are here today but not certain if it will be still there tomorrow. Don't you want to know the reason why you are there at this specific moment in life? Dont you have questions of the issues of life? Are you happy at the place you are?. I am not because I want to do what I was created for. Tmorrow may never come. To dwell in the past is not a option ,thinking about the future just brings fear but to live for today is what I want to do. I believe you should too.  The meaning of life is much more then only having a job,family and feeling ok with where you are. It is about discovering the reason for your creation . The reason why you are placed jthere right now on this particular moment in time. Nothin...

How to move from normality to excellency

How do you see yourself? The manner you regard yourself as a an individual is so important. How can you expect to be someone to society if you dont know yourself? What it basically means is:" What do you say about yourself?" For instance do you say:  - " I'm too fat"  - " I'm worthless"  - " I'm good for nothing"  - " I'll never be good enough"  - "I'm ok where I am and happy with it"  - " I'll rather not try something new" Sometimes you can devaluate yourself by the perception you have about yourself. Rather start saying: * "I'm beautiful" * " I know I can do anything I put my mind to." * " I like myself ,wait a minute I love myself" * " I'm perfect in my own skin" By speaking words of affirmations into the atmosphere carries power.It has no choice to just become as you spoke it into existence ( with the right ingredients ofco...