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How to take another chance in life!!

Have you woke up one day and realise that you got another chance at life? Its fascinating to think of the privilege to see another day. Just the other day you were at your lowest of low. You thought you will never make it. You gave up in fact. But here you are given another chance. Yes, you made bad choices. You got involved in wrong relationships. Seeked attention in all the wrong places which landed you in situations you are not proud of.  Searched for approval of friends by joining the crowd. You wanted to be part of the clan because life is so easy when you are one of them. You are important and everyone knows you and this kind of life make you feel important some how.   You always felt like the nerd, the one who is boring, never going out, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink alcohol or dont do clubs. So the moment when you became one of the 'good time' girl or boy , having a blast ,it all changed. You suddenly had a lot of friends. You made friends so...

What do you have to offer?

How often do we look at celebrities success stories. Reading it,following it on tweeter,facebook.  We start to fantasise about our own life. How we will be when we can become famous,well-known, popular, rich or even just making it in life. It's easy to follow other people's lives and clapping for them ,celebrating them whilst we still procrastinate on our own life. Yes,obcoz we should celebrate others.  Don't get me wrong. It is through such role models we can aspire to  become what we also should be. Many people have started small . They started with only one dream. One desire. One goal. With only what they had to offer. It brings us to the question. What do you and I have to offer to this world?. There are so many things we can do. Reaching out to teenagers, to abused women, to poor households, to underprivileged schools ,to a community with lack of entertainment activities. Still all the above are not the limit. What do you have?. What is it that y...

The uncertainty of tomorrow

The question why am I here pop in my head when I think about tomorrow. The reason I'm thinking this  is so that I can do what I'm suppose to do. When we listen to the news we just here bad news. People killing ,stealing, destroying and dying. It give the picture of things are here today but not certain if it will be still there tomorrow. Don't you want to know the reason why you are there at this specific moment in life? Dont you have questions of the issues of life? Are you happy at the place you are?. I am not because I want to do what I was created for. Tmorrow may never come. To dwell in the past is not a option ,thinking about the future just brings fear but to live for today is what I want to do. I believe you should too.  The meaning of life is much more then only having a job,family and feeling ok with where you are. It is about discovering the reason for your creation . The reason why you are placed jthere right now on this particular moment in time. Nothin...

How to move from normality to excellency

How do you see yourself? The manner you regard yourself as a an individual is so important. How can you expect to be someone to society if you dont know yourself? What it basically means is:" What do you say about yourself?" For instance do you say:  - " I'm too fat"  - " I'm worthless"  - " I'm good for nothing"  - " I'll never be good enough"  - "I'm ok where I am and happy with it"  - " I'll rather not try something new" Sometimes you can devaluate yourself by the perception you have about yourself. Rather start saying: * "I'm beautiful" * " I know I can do anything I put my mind to." * " I like myself ,wait a minute I love myself" * " I'm perfect in my own skin" By speaking words of affirmations into the atmosphere carries power.It has no choice to just become as you spoke it into existence ( with the right ingredients ofco...

Purpose

15 August 2019 Purpose#Gift It has been a while since visiting my quiet place. Where I can put my thoughts on paper. It is the fulfillment I get letting my mind travel through the day's activities. What did I do? Where did I go? Did I do anything effective for the day?.  It is a time to just reflect back on your daily routine. Now that I'm on maternity leave I actually have ample of time to be effective if I choose to be. Yes , I recently were blessed with a beautiful daughter. She is 10 weeks to be precise today. I'm really blessed thanks to God. Enough of that. How was your day? Have you been effective today?? Still searching for that special thing that ticks you??. Your purpose.? Why you doing what you doing?? After listening to advice today I started to go back to the desire that was placed long time ago in my heart. That is the key to unlocking the purpose you were created for. That gift that is inherently placed inside of you. You have been doing things withou...

What motivates you??

The last couple of days  I told myself I want to write at least daily on this blog because it is my platform to share my thoughts with others. Whether there are people that read it or not I will still do it. Everyday however I came to the end of he day and realize that I did not stick to my decision of writing everyday. It happens that I am either to tired or I think I don't have something to write about. And so I end up not writing anything. It made me think about what  my motivation behind writing on a daily basis is. Do I have a motivation? Because I belief if their is motivation for anything than you will go out of your way to make it a success. This takes me back to the days when I was growing up as well. How motivated I were to finish High School at any cost. I saw myself working and being successful and most importantly I wanted to just get out of my village. I had a vision and that really motivated me to do my best in my schoolwork. Today I can say that if you have ...

Unknown

D o one ever get to the point when you know fore sure what you are destined to to on this earth.?? When you have gone through life and experienced life in such a way thinking you got it all together. For some years you were actually chasing the wind. The things you kept yourself busy with did not add any value to your purpose placed in your heart by God. To really find purpose in life or to discover it, one need to begin with you as an individual. Have a chat wit yourself on where you want to see yourself over a year from now. If you just living day after day without any purpose you will just never be satisfied in anything you try to do. We are human beings created to be loved. Sometimes we try to look or find love in the wrong places or from the wrong people.  We are created with a sense to belong somewhere. So this lead to us getting involve in relationships that have no direction and does not fit in your purpose. The need for acceptance can make us do things that we lat...